[ For women] 9 tips to keep your man and have a happy, loyal and contented relationship

   

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   When was the last time you reminded your SO how much they mean to you?  If you're wondering how to keep your man happy, you've come to the right place.

   These nine tips will ensure a happy partner and a loyal relationship.

   Relationships are delicate, complex, and constantly changing.  Some marriages last 70 years, others 72 days (you see yourself, Kim) - and while none of these options are necessarily right or wrong, most people enter into a relationship in the hope that they will have a long, if not a lifetime  will take a long time.

   There is no one set secret to long, happy, and faithful relationships, but there are some general guidelines.

   Full upfront disclaimer: Nothing can make a relationship permanent with someone who doesn't want it to last.  These tips won't prevent arguments, infidelity, or other problems, but they can contribute to a healthy environment and a productive partnership.

   Clear communication, openness to new experiences, and respect for your partner are key if you want to build a lasting, loving relationship.

   1. Make your partner a priority

   Often times, take the time to let your boyfriend or husband know how special he is to you.  We get that life gets super busy;  School, jobs, children and other obligations are often disturbing.

   Taking the time to send a cute text or pick up his favorite snack on the way home is an easy way to remind him that he is always on your mind.

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   2. Respect yourself

   Sometimes it's about carelessness, but sometimes we get too far on the other end of the spectrum.

   Putting your partner first 24/7 can burn yourself up and kill the passion in your relationship.

   Don't be a doormat and don't let yourself go to do anything for him.  Trust is attractive and it is a must to take care of yourself.

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Have body awareness

   To go into the last point, the self-confidence of the body is very important in keeping the spark alive in any sexual relationship.

   People change and so do bodies.  If you've gained weight, or got dark chin hair, or an emergency appendicectomy left a strange scar since they first met, who cares?  We guarantee that this won't shut down decent, worthwhile guys.

   Shutting down your sex life over a few new stretch marks is sure to be a relationship killer.

   Don't let time and gravity stop you from doing your thing, girl.

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   4. Do not use sex as a chip for exchange

   Holding back sex for not taking out the trash or reserving half-hearted BJs for birthdays is a really bad idea unless you want your SO to believe sex is a chore.

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Be open

   This goes for many things (seriously, just try the restaurant you are supposed to try), but we're talking about the bedroom specifically.

   Everyone has different tastes, and if you want to keep your love life exciting (visit Babeland for ideas and inspiration) it is wise to approach sex with a relaxed, non-judgmental attitude.

   As long as it doesn't hurt or upset your moral compass, take the "I'll try anything once or twice if I like" attitude.  What if he's into something you just can't handle?  Try super hard not to let him know that you think his kink is weird or gross.

   Most people have already had enough sexual shame to live a lifetime (thank you, sex education for abstinence only!).

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   6. Trust him

   We know rom-coms taught you that men are incompetent horn dogs who turn into drooling cavemen even with slightly attractive women.  However, remember to respect your partner's intelligence by not falling for this shit.  Don't chase him for his cute coworker, neighbor, or friend.

   Uncertainty is a big bang, and unjustified lectures, snooping and accusations are sure to get you nowhere.

   If you have legitimate fraud concerns, talking respectfully and honestly is usually the best place to start.

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   7. Don't talk behind his back

   All couples will face difficult times, but airing your dirty laundry is usually a bad idea (unless your partner is abusive or doing something illegal or dangerous, in which case you should definitely seek the help of a third party  to take).

   Often times when you have run-out relationship drama it gets worse when you scold your friends and family.

   Remember, just because you can forgive your husband doesn't mean they can.  If you want to work on it, keep it to yourself.

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   8. Flirt with him

   Flirting keeps your passion alive and is an integral part of any good relationship.  Schedule solo dates frequently, try new things together, and pinch your butt cheeks for fun.

   A little sexting never hurts either.

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   9. Support him

   Encourage him if he wants to try something new.  Support him when he is going through a difficult phase in life.

   In general, men don't open up as easily as women.  So don't expect a warm conversation every time he walks through a stony spot.

   Something as simple as telling him he's doing a good job or preparing him a good meal after a long day can make him feel cared for.

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