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Queenie59
Reason This Case O
~2.4 mins read
My husband donated his sperm for IVF without my consent!! We have been married for 8 years with 5 children, 2 boys and 3 girls. His best friend has been married for 3 years without kids.

The wife is my friend. My husband was given One (1)million Naira for his sperm to be donated to my friend, the wife to my husband’s best friend. I was never told about this. Her pregnancy was announced around October 2017.

I was so happy for her, she never disclosed anything to me let alone how she went for IVF procedure. She gave birth to 2 daugthers in August, 2018. They threw a party and painted the town red.

In mid-November 2018, the kids just turned 3 months when one of the babies fell from the rocking chair in their sitting room.

She was bleeding, so they took her to the hospital, only to discover that she was SS, they later took the other one there for test and she is AS. They called my husband 2 weeks ago at 2am early morning on that day to come to the hospital, he wanted to go alone,  I said I will come with him as I was also very worried for the baby.

The first thing that shocked me, was that the baby so much looked like my daugthers at that age. She has the big eyes of my husband and my 5 kids. My husband was told to donate blood as he has O negative like the child.

He is the only one to give blood to the baby, as she had lost a lot of blood. After 2 hours there, we went home. I could not sleep, I told my husband directly;  ” Is there something about your friend’s child you want me to know?’ he said no. I said ok and slept off.

I noticed he was already awake and left home for work too early. I quickly dressed up and went to the hospital to see the wife. Only to see my husband there with them. I asked them straight if it was my husband that donated his sperm for the IVF? Because my husband is AS genotype like his wife unknowingly, while I am AA like her husband. My husband knew but wanted the One (1) Million Naira.

They did not bother to find out. She told me she wanted to tell me when they were all planning it last year, it was my husband that kicked against it, that I will never agree to the plan. I called his family and my uncle only, as I do not have parents. I told them that I can only remain in this marriage if the 2 daughters of his best friend is given back to me.

They are my husband’s  kids and mine as well, or they MUST pay me 2 million Naira, or I will quit my marriage. My husband is a cow. The twins are too beautiful like my husband for me to leave them with that family. My last child is lonely and needs a little one to play with. I know i sound a bit crazy, l’ am sorry i can not think strait anymore. This is just too much for me to handle.

I need advise on what to do next. Thanks

— Anonymous

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Abosede
Zambia Prisoners Has Voting Right
~3.6 mins read

Officials with Zambia's Electoral Commission have been holding voter registration drives in an effort to register over 16,000 inmates across the country's prisons ahead of the presidential elections scheduled for August 2021.

Flackson Mtonga, an inmate at Lusaka Central Correctional Facility, is happy to be able to exercise his right to vote as a Zambian citizen, "I am so grateful for what the government has done for us. Since 1964, this has never happened, but as for today or this time, the government has just thought of joining hands with us who are inmates, people who are rejected in society of nations. They have thought of us so that we can take part in voting. So we are very thankful as inmates."
The decision to conduct the inmate voter registration exercise has received backlash — including from some opposition political parties and civil society groupings who view it as a waste of time and resources.
Sylvia Bwalya, the spokeswoman for the Electoral Commission of Zambia, outlined the outcome of the initiative, "The commission is very happy for both the turnout for the voter registration exercise, generally, the turnout that we have had, and also the response from persons in lawful custody. As we have at the end of the initial period of voter registration, for persons in lawful custody, the commission managed to capture over 11,000."
The electoral commission spokeswoman also added that around 11,000 people in lawful custody had been processed for voting


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    Elvis21
    Bollywood Actor Bolanle Shares Cute Photos Of His Children
    ~0.8 mins read
     Nollywood actor Bolanle Ninalowo took to social media to share photos of himself spending some quality time with his beautiful kids.
    Sweet reactions as Nollywood actor Nino B chills with his kids

    Bolanle Ninalowo chills with his cute kids. Source: @iamnino_b

    In the post which he shared on Instagram, he posed with his son and daughter as they looked dapper in their outfits.
    He simply captioned the post:
    "Chill time wiv my babies .@myteenandi @iamnino_key"
    See post below:
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    OluwatoyinboTV12
    Bitter Kola: The 7 Health Benefits Of This Plant Are Incredible
    ~3.7 mins read
    Bitter Kola does not only increase sex drive, it also improves the sexual performance of men who consume it.
    Bitter Kola: The 7 health benefits of this plant are incredible
    Bitter Kola: The 7 health benefits of this plant are incredible

    It is said that the best of medicines come with a bitter taste: Undeniably, bitter kola is one of them.

    The usage of bitter kola is not limited to traditional activities alone. As a matter of fact, the fruit, seeds, nuts, and bark of the plant have been used for centuries in folk medicine to treat ailments from coughs to fever.

    The bitter plant, which is believed to contain a high source of vitamins and minerals such as Vitamins A, C, E, B1, B2, B3, fiber, calcium, potassium, and iron, also carry other antioxidants.
    Owing to this, research was carried out by accredited institutions to find out the possible healing attributes of the bitter plant.
    The results of the research are not only amazing, they're incredible as well.
    Here are some of the incredible health benefits of bitter kola:
    1. It improves sexual potency
    Studies have shown that when it comes to the improvement of sexual performance, especially among men, bitter kola is royalty.
    Bitter Kola does not only increase sex drive, it also improves the sexual performance of men who consume it.
    And in other to be effective, it is advisable to chew the kola for at least two minutes before intercourse.
    So you have it: Improve your performance in bed by chewing bitter kola.
    2. Remedy for osteoarthritis
    Osteoarthritis is the degeneration of joint cartilage and the underlying bone that causes pain and stiffness, especially in the hip, knee, and thumb joints.
    It is a common form of arthritis.
    And according to the National Institutes of Health, the causes of Osteoarthritis can include joint injury, obesity, and aging.
    However, researchers at Obafemi Awolowo University in Nigeria tested the effects of bitter kola against arthritis symptoms and the result concludes that bitter kola significantly reduced inflammation and pain.
    It also increased joint movement in patients that had osteoarthritis symptoms.
    3. It combats STDs
    Since the emergence of sexually transmitted diseases, noble scientists have been battling night and day to bring lasting solution the plague.
    Although their battle may seem somewhat difficult as a result of the complicatedness of the diseases, results have shown that seed and leaf of bitter kola have antibacterial activity on clinical isolates of Staphylococcus aureus, Escherichia coli, Salmonella typhi and Streptococcus pyogenes.
    4. It improves the function of the lungs
    The fibers and lung tissues are not only strengthened when bitter kola is consumed regularly in a considerate amount, it also stabilizes any other counter effect.
    In addition, it helps in the maintenance of good respiratory tract as well as treating chest cold.
    Still wondering why some smokers move along with bitter kola?
    5. It improves immunity system
    Bitter kola has a high amount of antioxidant. This high amount of antioxidants found in bitter kola does not only help fight bacteria and other illnesses, it also helps the body to increase its immunity levels.
    And when the immunity level of the body is increased, it becomes strong enough to fight against any foreign contaminant.
    6. It is anti-malaria agent
    Studies have shown that chemical constituents in bitter kola have anti-malarial properties. This is why traditional healers have for many years prescribed bitter kola for the treatment of malaria infections.
    Additionally, the stem, bark, and seeds of bitter kola are used to treat acute fever, inflammation of the respiratory tract and throat infections.
    7. It fights glaucoma
    Glaucoma is a condition of increased pressure within the eyeball, causing a gradual loss of sight.
    Glaucoma could result in permanent blindness if left untreated.
    However, bitter kola has been found to be an amazing remedy for the eye.
    And according to a Lagos University Teaching Hospital journal, when bitter kola is eaten, at least twice a day, it could successfully reduce the eye pressure.
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